Attachment is about fear and dependency, and has more to do with love of self than another. Love without attachment is the purest love because it isn't about what others can give you because you're empty. It is about what you can give others because you're already full.
-Yasmin Mogahed
Well said! I should agree with her! We may confuse ourselves sometimes between both. The attachment while dealing with people surrounding may drag into other things when you're out of control. Convincing, confronting and manipulating in order to create something you wish! this is such a bunch of uncounted mess. Talk about those everyday....this is not what actually I want it to be, but silently pushing myself to comply to all requirements every single day in my daily life. Work hard to achieve my yearly target, it's really a difficult task to work with without compromising. Gambling the games to won the bid.. the circulation of the routine. I have to prove my capability to deliver the task well and beyond the expectations.
I've gone through enough to understand what it's like to be attached to something or someone in order to be happy. In so many ways wasn't willing to admit how controlling I had become to sustain an idea of happiness. I was very unassertive and passive but was both ways with purpose in mind to control how people think and felt about me. To be liked! It wasn't until I looked at my intentions, my behaviors and put the focus back in me instead of other people in my daily life that makes me started the process of finding unattached love.
Loving yourself isn't always easy but I do believe that's where it's starts. It sounds funny and a lil bit unimportant but it's the most powerful thing you can do for yourself. It's how you disconnect your idea of happiness with other people, a job, your dream, fortune & future. If you like to be in control of things then irony is great. When you let go of your need to control everything you become more in control of your life then ever before.
Love...such a complicated thing to deal with...between us..??!!!!!
Nothing is firm for sure.....we do missing each other. We do talked like a best friends, we play like a small kids, we fights for no reasons, argue like a loving couple, but yet we are just a friend. We are just two stubborn people together be the most loving & stressful shit ever! When we are in good, we being so great but when things are bad, we are damn fucking terrible like no way to rid of it. There's a time I don't understand this relationship neither. Sometimes, we're friends. Sometimes, we're more then friends. Other times, I'm the one who lay on your shoulder sleep like a small baby and nagging for your warm cuddles.
Of all.....I don't love you like I do before! ahaha Indirectly we pushed ourselves away due for unknown excuses. But deeply our heart just blended itself together quietly. My heart do love you damn much but physically we keep on pretending that we are not meaning anything to each other. I'll take it as it is, no matter where you been, you'll be back here. Nothing is more special than our mutual understanding. That's enough to make me feel in loved. If you believe in love but find it difficult to explain, this is for you.....I'm not your love one but I'll be the one you love to see when you're here....because thing that I want to keep just us, nothing more!
This is a fair game till the next war....because I do love the way things mess around the feeling :') best of luck for everything.
I've gone through enough to understand what it's like to be attached to something or someone in order to be happy. In so many ways wasn't willing to admit how controlling I had become to sustain an idea of happiness. I was very unassertive and passive but was both ways with purpose in mind to control how people think and felt about me. To be liked! It wasn't until I looked at my intentions, my behaviors and put the focus back in me instead of other people in my daily life that makes me started the process of finding unattached love.
Loving yourself isn't always easy but I do believe that's where it's starts. It sounds funny and a lil bit unimportant but it's the most powerful thing you can do for yourself. It's how you disconnect your idea of happiness with other people, a job, your dream, fortune & future. If you like to be in control of things then irony is great. When you let go of your need to control everything you become more in control of your life then ever before.
Love...such a complicated thing to deal with...between us..??!!!!!
Nothing is firm for sure.....we do missing each other. We do talked like a best friends, we play like a small kids, we fights for no reasons, argue like a loving couple, but yet we are just a friend. We are just two stubborn people together be the most loving & stressful shit ever! When we are in good, we being so great but when things are bad, we are damn fucking terrible like no way to rid of it. There's a time I don't understand this relationship neither. Sometimes, we're friends. Sometimes, we're more then friends. Other times, I'm the one who lay on your shoulder sleep like a small baby and nagging for your warm cuddles.
Of all.....I don't love you like I do before! ahaha Indirectly we pushed ourselves away due for unknown excuses. But deeply our heart just blended itself together quietly. My heart do love you damn much but physically we keep on pretending that we are not meaning anything to each other. I'll take it as it is, no matter where you been, you'll be back here. Nothing is more special than our mutual understanding. That's enough to make me feel in loved. If you believe in love but find it difficult to explain, this is for you.....I'm not your love one but I'll be the one you love to see when you're here....because thing that I want to keep just us, nothing more!
This is a fair game till the next war....because I do love the way things mess around the feeling :') best of luck for everything.
