10 steps to enjoying each other better...
1. Be realistic about each other.
Don't try to turn ur partner into something he or she is not. Let's face it, guys-there's only 1 Pamela Anderson in the world, and even she has had her implants removed! Give ur gal a break and understand that her physical appearance is NOT going to change overnite with the help of a few facials or treatments. And ladies, Brad Pitt has already been taken, so u're gonna have to do with what ur guy is like! Chill out, love each other for what u are. There is more to ur partner than what meets the eye.
zz: I told ya.....am not a JLO, how cud I become like her..! heheh unless if you don't mind to spend 'some' to make me look like her. There is nuthin impossible in this world rite..! Let's think abt it and u'll proud of me when we walk together. U 2 think abt it and I'm willing 4 u huhuhuhu.....
2. Always talk things out.
Now guys, I know this is not ur fave pastime or mode of resolving issues, but u know what? This works with the gals. Don't make assumptions about each other's feelings. Learn to xpress urself better so that ur partner undrstands what u're angry about, or hurt about, or even happy about! When u stop talking to each other from the heart, it's the beginning of the end.
zz: Most of the times this kind of 'issues' will naturally disturb someone life, esp gals. Pls do remember, sometimes wat r they try to say actually is not wat they try to say. Not bcos of her/him self like tat, maybe bcos the way they thinking of individu. Arrrghhhhh I dunno wat is the rite words suppose to be. Gals alwayz hoping and aspecting guys 2 understnd her in natural situation. Learn and apply, teach then supply hahahahaha...damn! Sound unfair but that was the reality of life in this fuckin world.!
3. Do stuff together
Make an effort to do things together. Do some sports or involve urselves in some shared activities; something both of u enjoy or are interested in. It could be as simple as watching movies together, or jus strolling hand-in-hand down Orchard Road. Watch soccor with him once in a while though the green patch on TV puts u to sleep in 3 seconds. And guys, do give in if ur gal asks for another day at window-shopping, rather than suggest that she go out with her girlfriends for "that sort of activities" instead. If u're spending more time with ur friends rather than with ur partner, it's a warning sign that u're drifting apart!!!
zz: Dear, I don't like football and I did tried to understand wat are they doin by kickin the ball and ppls around screammin....Argghhhhh make me headache...! Will u accompany me 2 salon wash my hair..? 2x or 3x per week.? Take me 4 shopping or wat ever xtvts I do like hehe.. if YES I'm willing to accompany u to where ever u wanna go babeh. Feelin ala heaven..!!! hehehe
4. Meet each other halfway.
If he agrees to throw out that rotten T-shirt with the "The_Rock" print, u shouldn't kick up much of a fuss if he asks u to keep ur room tidy... There's gotta be a little giving and taking in a relationship, so learn to meet each other halfway.
zz: I'm not gonna throw out all my things just bcos U DON'T LIKE IT. Wat the hell by doin that. That the way I am. If u do luv me, just take me as I am..! If not dnt wastin ur time keepin tryin to be other ppls. Tepuk dada tanya hati.
5. Show ur love
Buy her flowers or candy or perfume everynow and then, even if u have been together for 5years. It's wonderful to continue showing someone that u care for him or her. Cook him a special meal, paint him a Valentine's Day card. Knit him mini-socks he can't wear ( like for decoration purposes => ), buy him a packet of milk for breakfast, or pack his wardrobe for him...so he knows u can still be romantic and loving despite having been together for quite a while.
zz: Wat shud I say here, is hard to remain in TODAY relationship. I do luv roses/perfumes/cards/sweet words and romantic situation. Wake-up with fresh coffee smell, having gud time together. Vacation/Travellin Gud if all this things become real in life.
6. Respect each other.
Stop making jokes about her hair or skin, or whatever it is u love to laugh at. Ask urself if she thinks if its funny. And if he has an inferiority complex about his height, stop ogling at tall guys and make him feel worse! Love is about respecting each other's feelings and being sensitive to each other at all times.
zz: Respect.... I do respect u but dnt ever forget abt the border.
7. Bury the past.
Stop bringing up the past. Gals..don't bring up the happy things about u and ur ex to ur guy, it would jus make him jealous or unhappy. And guys, don't talk about the happy times that u had with ur ex or mention about her in ur every other sentence as it would make ur gal feel un-happy and she might think that u saying all this b'cos u are gonna get back with ur ex or not interested in her anymore.
zz: HelOooooooOOooo not all the gal luv to bringing the past. Wat the point of comparison with the passed history. The fact passed is over! But sometimes passed can make u smile too...
8. Sit on ur jealousy.
All of us go thru' spells of insecurity at the beginning of the relationship, but don't translate that insecurity into jealousy. If u're gonna go through ur partner's mail and cupboard, and eavesdropping on conversations, u know something is wrong - with u!!! Jealousy is like a poison that slowly spreads thru' the relationship before finall y killing it. Trust ur partner; love has to have trust in it.
zz: I lost my words... Yes I am jealousy...! The way that I shud be bcos I do, I do luv u and I need u..
9. Keep ur commitments to each other.
If ur partner is standing u up all the time and cancelling dates and breaking promises, u need to talk! If u're in a relationship, make ur partner ur priority and don't disappoint them if u can help it. It's really terrible when someone promises to take u to dinner, and then calls to cancel it. Don't make promises u can't keep. If ur partner starts to feel that he/she is not important enough to u, u may jus lose him/her.
zz: Without specific reason and easily breaking promises? Wat do hv in mind. Wer am I in ur life? Don't give bullshit n fuckin excuses, nonsence..!
10. Be honest.
Honesty is not scowling at how awful she looks first thing in the morning, or telling him that he has the biceps of a fly~! When we say "be honest", we mean expressing ur feelings clearly, not being bitingly cruel. When u're hurt, say so, and when u're angry, tell him/her, w/o getting hysterical. If u can't be honest with ur partner, who can u be honest with? Love is also about honesty, and a relationship where no honesty exists probably isn't worth it!
zz: Be honest to urself before u start any commitment. If u the 1 willing and ready to commit with other, pls do ask urself. Wat kinda relationship that u r looking 4? Either u lookin 4 serious relationship or just wanna play around. Do think bout it.
1. Be realistic about each other.
Don't try to turn ur partner into something he or she is not. Let's face it, guys-there's only 1 Pamela Anderson in the world, and even she has had her implants removed! Give ur gal a break and understand that her physical appearance is NOT going to change overnite with the help of a few facials or treatments. And ladies, Brad Pitt has already been taken, so u're gonna have to do with what ur guy is like! Chill out, love each other for what u are. There is more to ur partner than what meets the eye.
zz: I told ya.....am not a JLO, how cud I become like her..! heheh unless if you don't mind to spend 'some' to make me look like her. There is nuthin impossible in this world rite..! Let's think abt it and u'll proud of me when we walk together. U 2 think abt it and I'm willing 4 u huhuhuhu.....
2. Always talk things out.
Now guys, I know this is not ur fave pastime or mode of resolving issues, but u know what? This works with the gals. Don't make assumptions about each other's feelings. Learn to xpress urself better so that ur partner undrstands what u're angry about, or hurt about, or even happy about! When u stop talking to each other from the heart, it's the beginning of the end.
zz: Most of the times this kind of 'issues' will naturally disturb someone life, esp gals. Pls do remember, sometimes wat r they try to say actually is not wat they try to say. Not bcos of her/him self like tat, maybe bcos the way they thinking of individu. Arrrghhhhh I dunno wat is the rite words suppose to be. Gals alwayz hoping and aspecting guys 2 understnd her in natural situation. Learn and apply, teach then supply hahahahaha...damn! Sound unfair but that was the reality of life in this fuckin world.!
3. Do stuff together
Make an effort to do things together. Do some sports or involve urselves in some shared activities; something both of u enjoy or are interested in. It could be as simple as watching movies together, or jus strolling hand-in-hand down Orchard Road. Watch soccor with him once in a while though the green patch on TV puts u to sleep in 3 seconds. And guys, do give in if ur gal asks for another day at window-shopping, rather than suggest that she go out with her girlfriends for "that sort of activities" instead. If u're spending more time with ur friends rather than with ur partner, it's a warning sign that u're drifting apart!!!
zz: Dear, I don't like football and I did tried to understand wat are they doin by kickin the ball and ppls around screammin....Argghhhhh make me headache...! Will u accompany me 2 salon wash my hair..? 2x or 3x per week.? Take me 4 shopping or wat ever xtvts I do like hehe.. if YES I'm willing to accompany u to where ever u wanna go babeh. Feelin ala heaven..!!! hehehe
4. Meet each other halfway.
If he agrees to throw out that rotten T-shirt with the "The_Rock" print, u shouldn't kick up much of a fuss if he asks u to keep ur room tidy... There's gotta be a little giving and taking in a relationship, so learn to meet each other halfway.
zz: I'm not gonna throw out all my things just bcos U DON'T LIKE IT. Wat the hell by doin that. That the way I am. If u do luv me, just take me as I am..! If not dnt wastin ur time keepin tryin to be other ppls. Tepuk dada tanya hati.
5. Show ur love
Buy her flowers or candy or perfume everynow and then, even if u have been together for 5years. It's wonderful to continue showing someone that u care for him or her. Cook him a special meal, paint him a Valentine's Day card. Knit him mini-socks he can't wear ( like for decoration purposes => ), buy him a packet of milk for breakfast, or pack his wardrobe for him...so he knows u can still be romantic and loving despite having been together for quite a while.
zz: Wat shud I say here, is hard to remain in TODAY relationship. I do luv roses/perfumes/cards/sweet words and romantic situation. Wake-up with fresh coffee smell, having gud time together. Vacation/Travellin Gud if all this things become real in life.
6. Respect each other.
Stop making jokes about her hair or skin, or whatever it is u love to laugh at. Ask urself if she thinks if its funny. And if he has an inferiority complex about his height, stop ogling at tall guys and make him feel worse! Love is about respecting each other's feelings and being sensitive to each other at all times.
zz: Respect.... I do respect u but dnt ever forget abt the border.
7. Bury the past.
Stop bringing up the past. Gals..don't bring up the happy things about u and ur ex to ur guy, it would jus make him jealous or unhappy. And guys, don't talk about the happy times that u had with ur ex or mention about her in ur every other sentence as it would make ur gal feel un-happy and she might think that u saying all this b'cos u are gonna get back with ur ex or not interested in her anymore.
zz: HelOooooooOOooo not all the gal luv to bringing the past. Wat the point of comparison with the passed history. The fact passed is over! But sometimes passed can make u smile too...
8. Sit on ur jealousy.
All of us go thru' spells of insecurity at the beginning of the relationship, but don't translate that insecurity into jealousy. If u're gonna go through ur partner's mail and cupboard, and eavesdropping on conversations, u know something is wrong - with u!!! Jealousy is like a poison that slowly spreads thru' the relationship before finall y killing it. Trust ur partner; love has to have trust in it.
zz: I lost my words... Yes I am jealousy...! The way that I shud be bcos I do, I do luv u and I need u..
9. Keep ur commitments to each other.
If ur partner is standing u up all the time and cancelling dates and breaking promises, u need to talk! If u're in a relationship, make ur partner ur priority and don't disappoint them if u can help it. It's really terrible when someone promises to take u to dinner, and then calls to cancel it. Don't make promises u can't keep. If ur partner starts to feel that he/she is not important enough to u, u may jus lose him/her.
zz: Without specific reason and easily breaking promises? Wat do hv in mind. Wer am I in ur life? Don't give bullshit n fuckin excuses, nonsence..!
10. Be honest.
Honesty is not scowling at how awful she looks first thing in the morning, or telling him that he has the biceps of a fly~! When we say "be honest", we mean expressing ur feelings clearly, not being bitingly cruel. When u're hurt, say so, and when u're angry, tell him/her, w/o getting hysterical. If u can't be honest with ur partner, who can u be honest with? Love is also about honesty, and a relationship where no honesty exists probably isn't worth it!
zz: Be honest to urself before u start any commitment. If u the 1 willing and ready to commit with other, pls do ask urself. Wat kinda relationship that u r looking 4? Either u lookin 4 serious relationship or just wanna play around. Do think bout it.
